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Although I get this second hand, so take it with a grain of salt. It seems that during the holidays festivities, at one of the family gatherings, a very serious if not contentious discussion ensued. Although I will admit to having a very stubborn nature, I guess you could consider this the pot talking to the kettle.
I cannot remember ever converting someone to my point of view, when they were originally opposed to it. Conversion from one point of view to another is a long slow process. The best I believe one can do is to make a tactful thrust. If that thrust is parried, then it is best to walk away. Further attacks will only harden the resolve of you opponent. I'm with Greg Koukl on this one. The best you can do is to attempt to "put a burr under their saddle." That is, leave them with only a very small nugget that they will later ponder.
Debating with the goal of converting the opposition is, generally, an exercise in futility. Take it from someone, who does some selling, that has at times tried the "hard sell." It don't work. Persuading people to you point of view in a very fine art that few, including myself, can achieve. Better to follow 1 Peter 3:15.
Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.
Posted by Ted at December 1, 2003 8:37 PM